Words Of A Bully

Things are not always what they seem, and were people act out of character or in exaggerated gestures, there is usually a reason.
Why do bullies bully – usually for power, but is there something else behind these behaviours?

Poignant

We have all seen it and we all know it; bad bosses drive aware good employees.
Many bosses think they are great; but only the truly great ones will lead and not manage.
They will engage and empower you in conversation and the conversation and the learning will be a 2-way street
So which boss are you?

Sweet Dreams

Sweet dreams are made of this was a line from the Eurythmics song “Sweet Dreams”, a song all about meaning and contentment, and looking for that inner peace.
Todays post looks at how can you achieve that piece if you are haunted by the Past

Do not underestimate the quiet man

Speak when spoken to was the words used by my parents when in company of me as a child; which did 2 things;
1) Touch me the value of listening and hearing
2) Knowing that not everything that is spoken is key to a conversation

So I ask you to ponder do you speak too much and listen less; or hear all and speak only when necessary to do so

Networking

Life has its difficulties, we do not always progress as we would like. Sometimes there are obstacles, some a bit more complicated than others. Sometimes we want to feed our egos, thinking about overcoming them on our own, and what we do instead is limit our chances of success (and the quality of our life).… Continue reading Networking

How Are You

How Are You ? It’s a simple question but it can lead to a conversation or just to a short sharp shrift and curt response such as……FINE! I’ve got a confession to make (sponsored by Kleenex) – I wasn’t happy at school. My school housemaster would ask me on a regular basis how I was.… Continue reading How Are You

Suitcases

So is bullying really worth it? Below are just some of the ‘suitcases’ as I think of them — the means and tactics that were part of my experience of getting over bullying, moving on from the experience and processing it. It is not an exhaustive list and doesn’t include depression, meltdowns etc! We all… Continue reading Suitcases

Credibility

Hi everyone! I hope that you are well. Did you know that credibility is “decided” in a split second? Last year I did a course on personal impact and it contested that our brain looks at: Age Sex Ethnicity The objects you hold or surround yourself by Clothes Manners Posture Eye contact Stability Smile For… Continue reading Credibility

Moving forward and upward

Hi everyone! We get up and we do not know how the day will have dawned. One day is good .. Another one not so good 😉 Regardless of the weather, nothing beats feeling warmth and optimism in our hearts to face the day and the days ahead. Today we are going to share advice… Continue reading Moving forward and upward

Times of crisis

Hi everyone! I hope you are all well, overcoming what life puts us in front of us. Today I would like to talk about crises. There can be many types of crisis, however they can be defined as a “Deep change with important consequences in a process or situation, or in the way in which… Continue reading Times of crisis